The Power of Gen Z Rizz! (Monday's must-read)

How to exude positive vibes this week!

If Friday go sweet, na from Monday we dey know!

The Monday mood will determine how Friday will be! I don't know how true that is tho…

I want to keep this short because you're probably rushing out for the week this morning.

I came to give you a sure update that will definitely give you a lighter and happier week!

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Hey girl! Reading this I wanna assume you're growing and maybe gaining and shedding weight in some necessary areas, becoming more beautiful day by day. I mean… look at you!🤩. The personality is also coming together as you scale through different life experiences.

With the features I have mentioned above, there is every chance you have been stopped or walked by one of these guys (maybe Joel, even), telling you how beautiful you are, right?

Senior man! Come back! You think this is all about girls? NO!

Same for you too, my guy! You've definitely been growing and a number of your features are attracting ladies to you and sometimes (a few times, maybe), they tell you how good looking you are and what they like about you (your personality and co).

We call these things compliments!

Sometimes na lie o, na just the pink lips dem like😂

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Now, here is the thing!

Sometimes we get creative with these compliments so much that the receiver blushes uncontrollably no matter how sad they might have been before that moment. When this happens and it’s the opposite gender, we term it “rizz”, innit?

Don't loud it!

SO WHAT DOES RIZZ MEAN?

"Rizz" is a playful term often used by Gen Z as a slang variation of "respect" or "props." It's commonly used to show admiration, appreciation, or acknowledgment for someone or something.

In the context of authentic and truthful compliments, "sincere rizz" refers to genuine respect or admiration expressed through compliments or positive affirmations.

In this digital age, where interactions often happen through screens, these good things we tell people about themselves can genuinely impact them, how they feel and behave for that whoel day and beyond. I termed this the "Power of Sincere Rizz", which refers to the genuine impact of authentic compliments. Instead of just dropping a quick "like" or emoji on social media, take a moment to send a heartfelt message or comment that shows genuine appreciation for someone's qualities, achievements, or actions.

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NOW, LET ME TEACH YOU THE “GEN Z” TYPE OF RIZZ (AUTHENTIC)

As you might have noticed, we Gen Zs mostly embrace saying things the way they are, some term it as being “woke”.

Therefore, Gen Z's way of complimenting involves being real and specific. Not just some “you are awesome” kind of thing

For instance, It's not just about saying "You're awesome," but rather noticing something unique and acknowledging it like “I love the way you make your friends feel special always”, “I love The way you speak”.

For example, instead of just saying "You're funny," you might say “discussing with you is always fun, especially when you talk about these funny stuff”, or you say "Your TikToks always make me laugh, especially the one about your stubborn last-born😂."

In case you're a Last born, don't come for me o na example o…

Take this as summary

• As you journey through the week, look for the good things in other people around you

• Tell them what you noticed and how much you admire them/it

• Keep a smile while saying it

• Only s@d!sts will respond negatively to such compliments, it should not stop you if they respond negatively. (They are probably not in the right mind frame too)

Sincere compliments has the ability to uplift others, make them happy and foster genuine connections. When someone receives a compliment that feels authentic, it not only boosts their confidence but also strengthens the bond between them and the person giving the compliment.

Words like: • You're beautiful • I like your dress • Your haircut looks good • I love your vibe e.t.c should not be difficult for you to say to people this week.

Giving compliments is a small act that can make a big difference in someone's day.

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Start from yourself!

As you go out, start this morning by telling yourself how beautiful, hansome, smart and passionate you are…

Remember your past achievements and celebrate them in your head. You sef no small!

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I am wishing you Godspeed this week as you show love to others and make them see the good things they possess!

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Have you ever given a compliment to someone?

what was their reaction?

Would you do it again?

Leave a comment for me here, I would love to read them!